Tuesday, May 25, 2010

the sad truth


Next week Bret will leave with the Rigbys to Brazil... without me. We've decided, with my doctor's encouragement, that at this point it's best if I stay in the states until the baby is born. Bret will then come back in August to be with me for the birth. That means we'll be spending most of the summer apart. I'm devastated, in fact, I usually start crying whenever I think about it too much. At the same time though, we're all looking forward to getting this whole thing going in Brazil and perhaps by the time I get out there with the little guy, things will be more settled.

Don't feel too sorry for me though, I have my family close by to watch out for me and hopefully this means that I'll be able to spend time this summer with all of you Utah people! Please, pretty please, be my friend - with no job or husband I'm going to have a lot of time on my hands...

I also have to remember that I've been really lucky to have had Bret so available these last several months of my pregnancy. We've spent A LOT of time together, pretty much every waking moment, and now that our time is so precious we've been trying even harder to live it up and cherish the little things. For example, on a rainy day a week or so ago, we made a fort in the sun room and had a four-movie marathon. It was awesome.
Comfy cozy.
Watching that documentary, "Man on Wire" about the guy who tight-rope walked between the two World Trade Towers - we recommend it.
I'm going to miss my best friend very much.

11 comments:

laura said...

Looks fun! Em and I watched Man On Wire a while ago (well, I watched it--Em fell asleep). It was pretty cool... and crazy!

I'm sorry you and your hubby will be apart for the summer. Come play with me! Lunch and a movie?

-La

Catherine said...

That fort is A-W-S-E-S-O-M-E!!!

Colette said...

I love the feet pic!
But I'm sad for you to be without the Bret!! :(

Jordan and Candice said...

My heart is hurting for you guys. I wish we were going to be out there to be with you.

Jordan and Candice said...

P.S. We didn't have "Nathan's" afterwards. Remember how I hate hotdogs? Plus, during the race I was really craving funnel cake and tacos.

April said...

Awe, cute! I like that fort/movie party. I hope the summertime will go by super fast!

Sophia said...

I just adore that last picture! and I will be your friend!!!
call me for sure.

Michelle Pearson said...

Laura! I would love to see you now that you're going to be here a couple months longer! I would love to talk about our baby boys and just to catch up. I miss you!!!

Emily said...

So fun. What a cool fort :) way cooler then ours. I'm sorry about your situation. No good at all. Hopefully those months will fly by? But still that really stinks.

Retail therapy helps me through that stuff... like maybe the Tai Pan Trading Tent sale going on in Sandy now through June 12, new items every day, 50-75% off? (You're my shopping buddy, so I knew I had to share that info with you.) :) Maybe something cute for the baby's room?

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Nana Shanna said...

I loved your pictures-the feet picture reminds me of the ones your dad likes to take, do you recall seeing any of those in Bret's album?

We'll be in close touch over the summer. We love Bret and our lovely Laura.