the curious case of laura miller

Let me just give you a little insight into my life. Over the last couple weekends I have been asked questions concerning my age that are typical and yet somewhat distressing. The first occasion was at Deer Valley Ski Resort where I was asked if I was over 18 yet so that I could sign a form. “I’m 23” I quickly retorted. Like most people, the lady apologized with a “well you just look so young”. The second occasion was at an African dance class I took last Saturday where I was asked by some random lady if I was from Butler Middle School. Yes, middle school! Meaning a good ten years younger than I really am; must I remind you of this? To her I gave only a grimace and a contemptuous “No”.

Do I feel bad about the way I react to these comments? Yes. Should people probably be a little more tactful? Yes. Maybe I shouldn't get so offended, but I am sick of this being the story of my life. It’s true that I could do more to help the situation like wearing heels and more makeup and maybe act my age, but honestly, I doubt it will make much of a difference. Can anyone think of some advantages to this problem so I could feel better about it? If so, please post and explain.

And please, none of these responses: “When you're older you’ll be glad you look so young”. To that I say this: hogwash. The last thing I want is to be walking around looking like a Juno when I’m pregnant or a babysitter when I pick my kids up from school. Besides, just because I look young now doesn’t necessarily mean I’ll age well. So you’ll have to do better than that. How can I make the most of this situation now? (creativity and humor is encouraged)

ps. This is not some weird way for me to announce that I'm pregnant. I'm not.